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Posted on November 29th, 2003 02:10 PM by admin
When writing letters to women from agencies, it is always a question – how many women should you write to?
Agencies advise writing to numerous women. Of course there is the fact that they make more money when you buy more addresses, but also it is the fact that this way you have a better chance to succeed.
On average, men receive 1-2 responses when write to 10 women. So if you buy 1-2 addresses, there is a great chance you will not receive ANY response!
Further, if you have received only 1-2 responses, chances are in 3-4 letters you discover some personal incompatibilities and this will be a dead end. Having 4-5 correspondents from the very beginning, you will have a better chance that one will be compatible with you.
How to find out if you are compatible? Do not wait too long! Do it the sooner the better.
Once you have received a positive response from a woman, send her a very detailed letter about yourself, your personality, your interests and hobbies, your life style and what you can offer to your future wife. Yes, you have already told her about those things in your first introduction letter - but you need more than that to decide if you want to marry this person, right? So does she. Tell her in great detail about yourself and request her to send you similar information.
How long such information will be? In the course of Individual Search service (personalized matchmaking) we request such detailed information from all our clients - both men and women - and they write 10-15 pages. Then we translate this information for them to Russian (English), and use it as a base when people decide if they want to start personal correspondence. This way is proven to be extremely effective, and we charge a lump sum for that! :-)
You can do the same ON YOUR OWN. The only thing is that such information should be professionally translated; otherwise the other side may quickly grow tired of reading it in a foreign language. Also, you must offer her to write the similar information in her native language (and then translate it to your language yourself), or she again will not be able to express herself in full. Yes, it will cost you a little, but it will save you months in tilly-tally correspondence and even more in wasted emotions. It is heartbreaking to discover that the woman you fell in love with has completely different values in life. There are only two ways out of such situation: you marry somebody who is incompatible with you (tip: start looking for a good divorce lawyer), or you have to end up the relationship you made a great investment in. How much are you paid per hour? How much emotions and time can you afford to waste? Decide for yourself. Surely you can rather afford to pay $8 per page of translation by a human translator, and give yourself assurance in making the right choice.
There is another advantage in writing detailed information about yourself and requesting the same in return - the woman will see you are committed and made an effort. She will see you are “for real” and not just entertaining with the idea. This will give you a competitive edge over the other guys that might be trying to steal her attention. Isn’t it great?
Also, if a woman was so interested in you to write 10-15 pages about herself, you know she likes you and considers you a good candidate. Would you do it for somebody you did not care about? You will see who of the women is more interested in you purely by the size of their information! If she wrote as much as you, or even more - she is definitely interested.
But wait, there is more. Scammers!
I am sure you have heard about them :-(
Do you think a scammer will spend time on writing 10-15 pages of information about herself? NO WAY!!! They are in business of fast bucks, and the whole set of their prewritten sweet letters will fit in 3-4 pages - and remember, they have done this “hard work” once, and now are collecting the crops of their writer’s talents. They will definitely NOT spend time on writing such a story as you ask. Even if they do, they will have to invent all their virtues, biography etc, etc - and I can tell you, it is not easy to make 10-15 pages story sound credible if it is not sincere. No scammer will be able to fool you.
Giving women complete information about yourself has so many wonderful advantages - you will be miles ahead of your competition!
So my answer to the question: “How many women should you write to?” - buy 40-50 addresses - yes, that much (for example, on Elena’s Models you can buy up to 50 addresses for only $95 – less than $2 per speak to! Does the chance to meet the love of your love is worth $2?). Send your introduction letter to all those women. Read their answers. See who you are still interested in. Send those ones your long 10-15 pages professionally translated to Russian story, and request the same type of story in return – IN RUSSIAN (the prewritten sweet letters are definitely in English!)
The questions we use for the Individual Search service are:
- Your biography – from birth to the current time
- Your family
- Your education
- Your work (informal CV)
- Your personality
- Your interests and hobbies
- The place where you live
- Your usual working day
- Your weekends
- Plans for the future and dreams
- Your idea of an ideal partner
- Your idea of a marriage and the roles of wife and husband
- Why you are looking for a wife in FSU (Former Soviet Union)
When you receive women’s stories in response, it will be very easy for you to see who is sincerely interested in getting to know you and who is not, and also see who is compatible with you.
You will have a fair amount of answers that you can divide into “Yes”, “No” and “Maybe”. Politely end correspondence with all “No’s”. Ask more questions from “Maybe’s”. Move correspondence with “Yes’s” on more personal level.
And very soon you will be able to make your choice and meet The Love Of Your Life!
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Elena Petrova is the owner of Elena’s Models, a Russian dating agency introducing Russian women of model quality. Elena’s Models offer 10,000+ online profiles, and also personalized matchmaking for busy professionals.
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